Hurt- Punishment- Reform Part - 3

Crime can definitely be vanished. Criminals can be reformed into better citizens of the society like us. For this a complete change in the education system, judiciary system and society has to come in the picture. Children should be given value added education and not just bookish education. The main motive of education should not only be to help a child be a doctor, engineer, or accountant, but be a good and responsible citizen. Lock ups (police remands) should be a place of more counseling, rather than torturing, the people there. Their resentment, anger, jealousy, their reason for their act of crime and their mental state should be understood and healed there. Instead of making them hard core criminals, they could be transformed to a better individual.
The duty of society is to motivate them in the right path, give them proper time, be patient with them and give those lots of love and peace. The more we label them, the more we are stamping them, and they take a wrong path forever. People tend to make the same mistake again and again. This repetition of mistake happens because nobody is working on them. A person doesn’t repeat its mistake intentionally. It happens because nobody is working on their deep rooted belief that makes them commit the crime again and again. We should empathize and understand his reason of such action. We should never be judgemental.we should respect and dignify them. We should empower them and not judge them. We should always remember no one is inferior or superior. We all are equal. God has made us all equal. It’s just a few have forgotten their way. We need to get them to right track again. We need to motivate them. We can only motivate them, when we ourselves are motivated from inside. If we keep thinking that we are reforming them, or we are not motivating them whole-heartedly. Being judgmental is the biggest obstruction in process of motivating others. Even if we forgive them we keep making them realize it more and more. We feel proud of it all the time. Then also our reform process will be ineffective. We would not be able to reform them. We would not be successful in our motive. The motivator has to understand that he doesn’t reform anybody. He just energizes them, motivate them, and empower them, with our love to reform them, without being judgmental and they reform themselves by reforming their belief system.

Only appraising their strength, or speaking motivating lines or words, will not motivate them. We should first believe from within in whatever we are saying. Only when we believe in sumthing.we can make others believe in it too. Traces of impurity in actions, words or even in thoughts would amount to failure of the whole reform process. Only where there is purity in thought and belief, we can empower and reform others.