December 08, 2008

Clean Success!

TO BE CLEAN MEANS TO BE A SUCCESS!!

We usually interact based on our past experiences with them. Even if there has been a single negative experience with someone, we keep that in our mind and all our responses are based on those experiences. It’s very similar to wearing colored glasses. When we wear green colored glasses on our eyes everything we see appears to us in a shade of green. The thing we see is not necessarily green, but just because we have green covering on our eyes; everything appears to be green to us. The same happens in our relationships too. When we put the glasses of past experiences on our mindset; on our beliefs about the person, then our future also stays affected by it. When we filter our relationships in regard with our past experiences, our creativity to think better ends. This is why we do not experience any new thing in our relationship, because we have already fixed it in our mind that whatever happened in past, will again be repeated in future too. We are then, not able to be successful in our relationships.

In order to succeed in our relationships we need to keep our mind free from the experiences of the past. We can do this when we look at the uniqueness and specialty of each individual that we come into contact with. While in present we should not judge or/ and criticize anybody. We should accept them as they are, because we can’t be same in our yesterday and today. Each of us changes everyday. It’s a universal truth. Every thought we crate is different everyday, even if the situation is same. This practice makes us respect us all and be free from negativity of the past.

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