June 16, 2007

love

"I am in love"this is the most common sentence we hear in our daily life,from all our friends.Some says i am happy that love has showered its grace on me,and some says i am still waiting for my love to come.Some are sad and heartbroken,and on the other hand some doesnt even believe in the word love,and some defines it only as lust.Jesus and mother teresa said love is humanity.Gandhi and Nehru said love is patriotism.While adam and eve are considered the inventors of love,romeo and juliet died for their love,and became an inspiration for lovers.Not to forget sahajahan made the seventh wonder of the world,Taj Mahal,a symbol of love in loving memories of his beloved wife.but who precisely knows what love is.

According to me love is a mixture of all the above and many more.Love has nothing to do with whatever you expect to get,it is what you are expected to give.Love is to make the person you love happy with whatever you can give to him/her.Love is to compromise.No love can be successful,if it is build up on someone else's happiness.Love comes to you only if you give love.Eventually love detoriates with attitude, ego, selfishness, greed, but it increases rapidly with double effort if it involves purity, faith, truth and care. People say love is to accept the person with all his/her negative n positive attitudes and encourage them but true love is to make your loved ones realize their mistake and lead them to be better. Love is to make a difference in someone’s life and make him/her better. Love is having the best experience of your life. love is to be each others strength and not weakness. Love is to make commitments, to be together, to help, to make your loved ones smile, to feel insecured, to be jealous, to make mistakes, but most importantly love is to forgive.hatredness for sure is a part of love, but if it crosses it limits it takes over love, and destroys its natural essence completely. Love is to share not only your happiness but also to stand beside your loved once in their difficult times. Love is to be happy for some one else. Love doesn’t mean to end up together happily, but for being apart for someone’s happiness. Love makes the world most beautiful be it only for a moment even. Life without love is a year without summer. Love happens for no reason and if you have a reason to love someone that’s not love but more admiration or infactuations.

Everything has a positive and a negative aspect, and so do love. Love knows no rules, no boundaries.And so sometimes people do make mistakes. Or rather love itself is called a mistake at times. Love is one day of romance and ten days of differences. Love is one smile and thousands of tears. Love is numerous wounds and hurts and no anticipation. Love is loneliness than togetherness at times. Love is sentiments and no practicality. when love meets practicality its essence is destroyed,because love is not about being practical,but being crazy. Love is more of gloom than joy. Love is more of darkness than brightness. So the balance sheet of love tallies itself. There is no extra balance left in any of either sides of balance sheet. Both liability and assets of love equalize it. Yet it is the most beautiful and wonderful thing in the world to be done.

3 comments:

  1. hey i find what u have written to be verry true

    but i am sorry to say that love some times is verry shitty atleast to me it has been
    nw way cheers to love in all

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  2. Love happens for no reason and if you have a reason to love someone that’s not love but more admiration or infactuations.


    very true ...

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  3. i loved ur descrpition of love especially when u said love does not know any practicality if it creeps in, love loses its essence/
    Even Fracis Bacon has said, "U canot love and be wise"
    The only thing which i found odd was its comprison with a balance sheet.
    How can u be so unromantic to compare pious and divine thing like love with a pragmatic and practical phenomena of balance sheet

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