“Ous ki boond si hoti hai betiyaan,
sparsh khurdara ho toh roti hai betiyaan.
Roshan karega beta to ek hi kul ko,
do-do kulon ki laaj ko dhoti hai betiyaan.
Koi nahi hai doston ek dusre ke kaam,
heera agar hai beta toh moti hai betiyaan.
Kaanto ki raah pe yeh khud hi chalti rahengi,
auro ke liye phool hi boti hai betiyaan.
Vidhi ka vidhan hai,
yehi duniya ki rasm hai muthi mai neer si hoti hain betiyaan.“
June 16, 2007
love
"I am in love"this is the most common sentence we hear in our daily life,from all our friends.Some says i am happy that love has showered its grace on me,and some says i am still waiting for my love to come.Some are sad and heartbroken,and on the other hand some doesnt even believe in the word love,and some defines it only as lust.Jesus and mother teresa said love is humanity.Gandhi and Nehru said love is patriotism.While adam and eve are considered the inventors of love,romeo and juliet died for their love,and became an inspiration for lovers.Not to forget sahajahan made the seventh wonder of the world,Taj Mahal,a symbol of love in loving memories of his beloved wife.but who precisely knows what love is.
According to me love is a mixture of all the above and many more.Love has nothing to do with whatever you expect to get,it is what you are expected to give.Love is to make the person you love happy with whatever you can give to him/her.Love is to compromise.No love can be successful,if it is build up on someone else's happiness.Love comes to you only if you give love.Eventually love detoriates with attitude, ego, selfishness, greed, but it increases rapidly with double effort if it involves purity, faith, truth and care. People say love is to accept the person with all his/her negative n positive attitudes and encourage them but true love is to make your loved ones realize their mistake and lead them to be better. Love is to make a difference in someone’s life and make him/her better. Love is having the best experience of your life. love is to be each others strength and not weakness. Love is to make commitments, to be together, to help, to make your loved ones smile, to feel insecured, to be jealous, to make mistakes, but most importantly love is to forgive.hatredness for sure is a part of love, but if it crosses it limits it takes over love, and destroys its natural essence completely. Love is to share not only your happiness but also to stand beside your loved once in their difficult times. Love is to be happy for some one else. Love doesn’t mean to end up together happily, but for being apart for someone’s happiness. Love makes the world most beautiful be it only for a moment even. Life without love is a year without summer. Love happens for no reason and if you have a reason to love someone that’s not love but more admiration or infactuations.
Everything has a positive and a negative aspect, and so do love. Love knows no rules, no boundaries.And so sometimes people do make mistakes. Or rather love itself is called a mistake at times. Love is one day of romance and ten days of differences. Love is one smile and thousands of tears. Love is numerous wounds and hurts and no anticipation. Love is loneliness than togetherness at times. Love is sentiments and no practicality. when love meets practicality its essence is destroyed,because love is not about being practical,but being crazy. Love is more of gloom than joy. Love is more of darkness than brightness. So the balance sheet of love tallies itself. There is no extra balance left in any of either sides of balance sheet. Both liability and assets of love equalize it. Yet it is the most beautiful and wonderful thing in the world to be done.
According to me love is a mixture of all the above and many more.Love has nothing to do with whatever you expect to get,it is what you are expected to give.Love is to make the person you love happy with whatever you can give to him/her.Love is to compromise.No love can be successful,if it is build up on someone else's happiness.Love comes to you only if you give love.Eventually love detoriates with attitude, ego, selfishness, greed, but it increases rapidly with double effort if it involves purity, faith, truth and care. People say love is to accept the person with all his/her negative n positive attitudes and encourage them but true love is to make your loved ones realize their mistake and lead them to be better. Love is to make a difference in someone’s life and make him/her better. Love is having the best experience of your life. love is to be each others strength and not weakness. Love is to make commitments, to be together, to help, to make your loved ones smile, to feel insecured, to be jealous, to make mistakes, but most importantly love is to forgive.hatredness for sure is a part of love, but if it crosses it limits it takes over love, and destroys its natural essence completely. Love is to share not only your happiness but also to stand beside your loved once in their difficult times. Love is to be happy for some one else. Love doesn’t mean to end up together happily, but for being apart for someone’s happiness. Love makes the world most beautiful be it only for a moment even. Life without love is a year without summer. Love happens for no reason and if you have a reason to love someone that’s not love but more admiration or infactuations.
Everything has a positive and a negative aspect, and so do love. Love knows no rules, no boundaries.And so sometimes people do make mistakes. Or rather love itself is called a mistake at times. Love is one day of romance and ten days of differences. Love is one smile and thousands of tears. Love is numerous wounds and hurts and no anticipation. Love is loneliness than togetherness at times. Love is sentiments and no practicality. when love meets practicality its essence is destroyed,because love is not about being practical,but being crazy. Love is more of gloom than joy. Love is more of darkness than brightness. So the balance sheet of love tallies itself. There is no extra balance left in any of either sides of balance sheet. Both liability and assets of love equalize it. Yet it is the most beautiful and wonderful thing in the world to be done.
June 08, 2007
SARI
what the little dress is to london,the sari is to india:great for any occasion.while its hard not to feel beautiful and poised when drapped in the elegant yards,for those living life in the fast lane,the sari's shelf space is shrinking.day to day salwar suits,jeans,and trousers prove to be practical choice for college and work.yet at weddings and other family occasions sari scores high with a variety of blouses,corsets,bikinis,halters for a super sexy look.sari makes feel more dressed up than usual,but one cant think of wearing it everyday.sari's may have a lot of legroom but you cant really run around in them.westerns are a lot mobile.so the stumbles and stiffness are worth it,but only for special events.but saris have not lost their charm.
yet to be concluded
yet to be concluded
June 06, 2007
EPITOME OF CULTURE_INDIA
India is a land rich in culture.it had been imprisoned and reigned by mughals and Britishers for more than 1000’s of years .yet it did not loose its cultural charm .it always respected others culture and accepted their ideas and enriched her own culture .it has always acknowledged Indians and people of other country with sacrifice, love and brotherhood .but it seems we-the generation of 21st century are forgetting our own culture.
Whenever the question who are you? arises, an American says he is American, a British says he is a britisher , the person from Arab says he is Arabian, the person from Greece says he is a Greek, but when the same question is asked to a person of India he says he is Bengali/Sikh/Hindu/Muslim making himself a laughing stock for others. He doesn’t say what he is expected to. Why ??? Aren’t we proud enough to call ourselves Indians or are we too proud to call ourselves religious and insult our nation. Moreover is the diversification of religion more important or the unity of being Indian?
Sanskrit the mother of not only 16 indian languages but also to other languages in the world.for eg-mother from matre,brother from bhratre,etc.no doubt,only an Indian can speak all languages fluently as spoken by the other national people,but none other nations people can speak Indian language as fluently as Indians.and as they say UR MOTHER TONGUE IS THE SOUL OF YOUR IDENTITY.if you don’t know your mother tongue,you have no identity of your own.in the false rat race of speaking other foreign languages fluently,we have forgotten our own mother tongue,our national language, hindi.how many schools teaches students to speak in their mother tongue and not English.English has become the main language of the world,just because the Englishmen respects their language and feel proud to talk in their mother tongue.Indian language is no less powerful.indian language can also be one among worlds most spoken languages ,but this can happen only and only when WE- the Indians learn to respect our mother tongue.
Khadi,sari salwar kameez is the dress of an Indian.simplicity is pulchritude.in the motto of Indian dressing.but this natural beauty is robbed away by todays artificial beauty.wearing funky western clothes,short skirts,speghities,halters,junkies,trendy and fashionable wear is what has become more important.piercing,not only ears and nose but also belly,tongue,chin,tattoos on skin,streaking and colouring hairs is what is called beauty today.but is it seriously what is called aesthetic beauty.or is it only dirt which is driving away real beauty. is not real Indian beauty in traditional wears,bindi,sringaar, mehndi,etc.that’s Indian beauty.
Only Indian culture teaches to obey and respect our elders.this is the country where maryadapurshotam ram just to respect his father’s words went to jungle for 14 years of exile,this is the land where grandparents sings lullabies and recites stories to their grandchildren expressing their love to them.but now parents are taken up as some garbage and thrown out of the house to some old age homes,when they need their children the most.this is the country where shri Krishna taught us to respect women.women are not only a matter of entertainment,but the starting and the soul of the world.guests are considered as gods in India and are always welcomed by them by joining their hands together and greeting.helding out hand and greeting our elders is not Indian culture,but to touch their feet and take their blessings,is Indian culture."HI" is not the word of Indian,but NAMASTE.
EARLY TO BED AND EARLY TO RISE,SIMPLE FOOD,SIMPLE LIVING,CONCENTRATION,MEDITATION,YOGA,etc,were the lifestyle of Indian culture.but now latenight parties,discos,drinking,fagging,speedy driving,fast life,has become Indian lifestyle.but is it seriously Indian lifestyle.no,its western lifestyle taking over Indian lifestyle.now we no more seem and feel to be a part of Indian culture,but western culture.Indians are born to light up someone’s hope,someone’s smile,someone’s darkness,someone’s life and not cigrattes.
There are two stagnant truths…..
1.no matter how much an Indian try and change his looks,but can never change the fact of tan colour of his body.he can nwever look as fair as those of Englishmen.
2.we are Indians from birth and so we should accept the truth,and learn to respect our country,and its culture.only then we would be able to make it more better and powerful.so lets kindle the spirit of our nation and culture and gift a safe,secur,.and well insured living atmosphere to the generation next, as was presented to us by our ancestors.
Whenever the question who are you? arises, an American says he is American, a British says he is a britisher , the person from Arab says he is Arabian, the person from Greece says he is a Greek, but when the same question is asked to a person of India he says he is Bengali/Sikh/Hindu/Muslim making himself a laughing stock for others. He doesn’t say what he is expected to. Why ??? Aren’t we proud enough to call ourselves Indians or are we too proud to call ourselves religious and insult our nation. Moreover is the diversification of religion more important or the unity of being Indian?
Sanskrit the mother of not only 16 indian languages but also to other languages in the world.for eg-mother from matre,brother from bhratre,etc.no doubt,only an Indian can speak all languages fluently as spoken by the other national people,but none other nations people can speak Indian language as fluently as Indians.and as they say UR MOTHER TONGUE IS THE SOUL OF YOUR IDENTITY.if you don’t know your mother tongue,you have no identity of your own.in the false rat race of speaking other foreign languages fluently,we have forgotten our own mother tongue,our national language, hindi.how many schools teaches students to speak in their mother tongue and not English.English has become the main language of the world,just because the Englishmen respects their language and feel proud to talk in their mother tongue.Indian language is no less powerful.indian language can also be one among worlds most spoken languages ,but this can happen only and only when WE- the Indians learn to respect our mother tongue.
Khadi,sari salwar kameez is the dress of an Indian.simplicity is pulchritude.in the motto of Indian dressing.but this natural beauty is robbed away by todays artificial beauty.wearing funky western clothes,short skirts,speghities,halters,junkies,trendy and fashionable wear is what has become more important.piercing,not only ears and nose but also belly,tongue,chin,tattoos on skin,streaking and colouring hairs is what is called beauty today.but is it seriously what is called aesthetic beauty.or is it only dirt which is driving away real beauty. is not real Indian beauty in traditional wears,bindi,sringaar, mehndi,etc.that’s Indian beauty.
Only Indian culture teaches to obey and respect our elders.this is the country where maryadapurshotam ram just to respect his father’s words went to jungle for 14 years of exile,this is the land where grandparents sings lullabies and recites stories to their grandchildren expressing their love to them.but now parents are taken up as some garbage and thrown out of the house to some old age homes,when they need their children the most.this is the country where shri Krishna taught us to respect women.women are not only a matter of entertainment,but the starting and the soul of the world.guests are considered as gods in India and are always welcomed by them by joining their hands together and greeting.helding out hand and greeting our elders is not Indian culture,but to touch their feet and take their blessings,is Indian culture."HI" is not the word of Indian,but NAMASTE.
EARLY TO BED AND EARLY TO RISE,SIMPLE FOOD,SIMPLE LIVING,CONCENTRATION,MEDITATION,YOGA,etc,were the lifestyle of Indian culture.but now latenight parties,discos,drinking,fagging,speedy driving,fast life,has become Indian lifestyle.but is it seriously Indian lifestyle.no,its western lifestyle taking over Indian lifestyle.now we no more seem and feel to be a part of Indian culture,but western culture.Indians are born to light up someone’s hope,someone’s smile,someone’s darkness,someone’s life and not cigrattes.
There are two stagnant truths…..
1.no matter how much an Indian try and change his looks,but can never change the fact of tan colour of his body.he can nwever look as fair as those of Englishmen.
2.we are Indians from birth and so we should accept the truth,and learn to respect our country,and its culture.only then we would be able to make it more better and powerful.so lets kindle the spirit of our nation and culture and gift a safe,secur,.and well insured living atmosphere to the generation next, as was presented to us by our ancestors.
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